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  1. Hello, I’m new to the online blogging thing but I really don’t know where else to turn to for support from people who may be going through the same things as I am. It’s a long story because I’ve been technically a stepmom for a year and a half but have been in their lives for 3, but with their father for 5 1/2 years. I will admit from the get go that we didn’t do it the right way, but it happened and there’s no dwelling on what we can’t change now. He was in a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage and that’s how I came to be. The divorce was very nasty and she was caught by the judge more than once lying. long story short she lost her case as far as wanting to rape my now husband with alimony and child support, so this only ignited the gasoline. It was decided a 50/50 custody. It has been a far cry from happy, normal or even tolerable at times for both of us. The daughter is the oldest and she is out of control. She is verbally and physically abusive to my husband. Has been since the custody arrangement was granted 3 years ago. She is 13 now and a mini horror of her mother. They have both tried and tried to concoct things about my husband to get him arrested and have him lose everything. We have had the cops here countless times and DCF a handful of times too. The latest incident was last Tuesday when he told her to go live with her mother and do not come back. It has been a word that I can’t even explain to anyone how this has been for me personally as a human, a wife, a stepmom, even a daughter and sister. I’m so hopelessly lost and exhausted. There is so much more to this story, but right now we are being harrassed by their mom and the daughter daily. His 9 yr old son is here till school starts to finish out the 2nd half of the summer, but he doesn’t want to talk to either of them. We’re both waiting for the next knock on the door from the police AGAIN. I can go more in detail about this hell later but I’m really looking for someone that can actually help us without costing us a fortune. We have called so many agencies, but to no avail. She is tormenting us and it’s just like it’s ok. I’m at a breaking point, but am still trying to fight along with my husband and stay strong for him too. I feel so lost and empty bc I don’t see a light at the end of this tunnel. Is anybody struggling with a nasty spawn of satan that can’t get help too? I’ve never talked to anybody that is going through this so I feel very very alone.

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